Couples Massage FAQ
How confidential is our massage?
Completely confidential. I will need the contact telephone number of both you and your partner and a contact email, I do not need to know any other personal information about you unless you choose to share. The reason I require both telephone numbers is that I need to be satisfied that both of you are fully on board with the couples experience.
There will also be questions for you both about your body and your general health which I will need in order to tailor a massage to your needs. But everything you share with me stays completely confidential.
We have never had a shared couples sensual massage before.
Few couples have actually taken the step to enhance their intimacy and to take guidance from a third party. It is an investment in partnership, and an opportunity to learn how to give and to create space for your partner to ultimately reach a deeper level of intimacy.
Often a couple will also find it exciting to involve others in their intimacy. A couples massage allows you to explore this in a safe and controlled space and knowing that your boundaries are respected and yours is the only agenda. At the time of booking we can discuss how you would like the massage to progress.
Will we get the chance to talk to you before the massage?
Each session begins with an opportunity to sit down and chat. I will make a note of what each of you has written on your consent form and we will talk about boundaries, what you would like to happen and go over anything you aren't comfortable with.
We have fantasies that we would like to discuss with you, is that OK?
Many couples reach a point where they would like to explore new things in their relationship. This is totally normal and often enhances their sex life, brings them closer and deepens their emotional connection. The fantasy scenario often involves more than just sensory massage and this is your opportunity to discuss what you would you would both like to achieve from a couples massage. This is a safe, sex-positive non-judgmental space and I want you to feel comfortable and excited by the prospect of exploring your pleasure in new ways.
What happens in a couples massage?
How the massage progresses is entirely up to you and what you are comfortable with. It can take a number of forms:
Voyeur scenario: One partner is on the massage couch whilst I carry out the massage whilst the other watches. Then you will swap places and I will massage the other partner.
4-hands scenario: One partner is on the couch and the other partner will follow my lead and mirror my movements on the body. The roles are then swapped and I will guide the massage strokes for the other partner.
Will we both be naked during the session?
It is entirely up to you and your comfort levels. You determine whether you are completely naked during the session or whether you keep some garments on. Whilst I massage I tend to wear fewer clothes simply because I am able to move across the body with more ease. Most people choose to be completely naked although some are more comfortable starting with a robe or undergarments at the beginning.
Can I arrive early
No, please do not arrive early. Please arrive at the time of your appointment. Between each appointment I need to change all towels and covers and clean surfaces in preparation for the next appointment.
We are coming to you straight from work - can we shower?
I kindly ask that all clients either shower within the last hour or take a shower upon arrival. This practice ensures your body is fully prepared to unwind and enjoy the treatment. There is a bathroom and warm towels here and you can take a shower before and after your treatment.
Are there any age restrictions?
Because of my age, I prefer clients over 30. There are occasionally exceptions but because of the intimate, close nature of my treatments I do reserve the right to decline, if I don't feel entirely comfortable.
Can we touch you back during the massage?
This is your sensual massage and the focus is on your relaxation and wellbeing. An element of reciprocal touch is fine but touching too intimately or grabbing is unwelcome and unpleasant. Be aware of boundaries and consent and in the same way I am ensuring your comfort and safety you should be aware of my boundaries. If you are in doubt ask permission.
How can I pay you?
You will pay a non refundable £80 deposit when you make the booking. (If you need to change the date, then let me know 24 hours beforehand and we can move the deposit to the new booking). That can be done by card, or bank transfer. The balance can be paid on the day in cash, by card or bank transfer. I am unable to offer refunds under any circumstances.